When you subscribe to the i’m perfectly DIVINE podcast, you’ll receive my Coming Home Meditation as a gift to support your journey back to your divine center.
When you subscribe to the i’m perfectly DIVINE podcast, you’ll receive my Coming Home Meditation as a gift to support your journey back to your divine center.
Women have always been the ones willing to go into the mess — and that willingness is where real power lives. Our ability to sense when something is off is what allows us to create shifts before everything falls apart. Yet this gift is rarely honored. Instead, we’ve shrunk ourselves with the belief that we’re “too much,” while simultaneously holding one another to an impossible standard of navigating chaos perfectly. No one can. We were never meant to. We are meant to learn from each other — and from that, rebuild as way-showers by honoring the unique strengths we each carry, with compassion for the very human experience of holding it all.
If your spiritual and personal growth journey has ever left you feeling like you should be further along by now — or somehow more “together” — this episode will meet you exactly where you are, and celebrate you as you are. Because here’s what I’ve come to believe: the mess is not a detour from the path. It is the path. This week, I get honest about my own ego in action — the cringe-worthy moments, the subtle ways I still reach for worthiness — and what happened when I stopped trying to outrun any of it. When we’re willing to notice the ego’s antics without judgment or comparison, something unexpected opens up. The magic finds us. And that’s exactly what I want you to experience too.
It is the seemingly insignificant moments—the ones that on the surface aren’t that big of a deal—that our emotions guide us to deepen. Not to pick on us, but ultimately to elevate us. That’s where society has gotten both our humanity and our feelings all wrong. When spirituality teaches us that our humanity makes us weak or wrong, we miss the exact gift of being here: to embody the love we are, as we are, with compassion, so we can extend that same compassion to others. This is how we shift from trauma consciousness to unity consciousness.
The measure of any relationship—whether with a partner or with our collective humanity—isn’t the absence of challenges but how we move through them toward greater love. We’re being called to recognize our power to co-create by addressing what needs to change while holding our vision for what love wants to become. This isn’t about the misguided fairy tales that taught us to give our power away, but about reclaiming who we truly are by awakening to our truth, love, and power—not conceptually, but in how we show up every single day.
When life feels like it’s pulling you in every direction — from family health crises to a world that seems to be spinning out of control — it’s easy to let fear take the wheel. This is exactly when it’s time to practice finding our center. Fear does exactly what it’s designed to do: pull us away from our inner knowing and power. We will all experience this, especially during turbulent times. This is our moment to choose and embody our innate power of love, which is stronger than fear, by deepening the skillsets that bring us back to our hearts. Tune in, breathe deep, and let yourself be reminded of the love and purpose that have been inside you all along.
