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There is a level of partnership that goes beyond what we typically think of as soulmates. This is what author Cynthia Bourgeault discusses as Fifth Way Love, and once you understand it, you may never see intimate partnership the same way again. The territory we are entering is intimate partnership as a path of spiritual alchemy. There is a dimension of pleasure available within a sacred relationship that goes so far beyond the physical, it has the potential to dissolve the ego entirely and birth something neither partner could create alone.
The Divine wants to please you. Which is why you have been built for pleasure. Not just from a sensory level, but also with an aspect within you that seeks to fulfill you, bring you joy, and feel pleasurable.
But the hard truth is that it is easy for our egos to corrupt our pleasure. It’s also easy for others to manipulate you into finding pleasure in ways that only have a short-term effect. Sacred pleasure isn’t something that leaves you feeling empty when all is said and done. That’s your ego’s version of pleasure.
It seems strange, but there are people who are threatened by your existence. Of course, it isn’t actually you who is the threat — it’s what you represent to them. They believe you have something they cannot have, something you don’t deserve, or that you took something from them. And so they resent you for it. The only semblance of power they feel, after having given it away, is to try to put you down through criticism. This is Part 2 of our series on alchemizing the critic.
Critical people can feel like some of the most draining relationships to navigate. They have a knack for picking at the smallest things, and suddenly you find yourself filled with self-doubt — either shrinking in shame or defensive and angry at being so misunderstood. But what if there’s another way to address the criticism you’re facing?
This week, we’re diving deep into the psychology behind the constant critic, what is really driving their behavior, and what you can do to completely change the way you respond.
Do you ever experience the gap between knowing better and feeling better? Your mind knows exactly what is going on and what needs to happen to shift — yet the very tool you rely on suddenly stops delivering the result you expected.
This is exactly what I experienced this week when I felt pressure but couldn’t seem to let go. My mind knew what to do. I applied my usual go-to tools. But my heart had another plan entirely. Join me as I open up my journal to share where I was and the insights that unfolded — insights that may support you too.
