Your #1 Tool to Support Your Inner Transformation15 Jun 2012, by Featured, personal development, self-care, Stress in
Remember at the beginning of the year how I said 2012 was a year of letting go? How is that going for you thus far? Are you experiencing some emotional depths as well as the highs?
If you are in the process of transformation – your answer is a resounding yes! Emotional highs and lows is what transformation feels like. Your emotions bring you head on with your fears in order for you to make a profound choice. Are you going to stay in the safety of who you are right now or are you going to share more of yourself in love.
Let me be clear that there is absolutely nothing wrong with where you are. You don’t need to “strive” to be anything more than who you authentically are. The emotions you experience are there to support you to do just that, experience your true self emanating the love that naturally comes within you. In other words, your negative feelings are your natural indicator telling you there is more love within you ready to be experienced, felt and seen.
You see, there comes a point when the love within you cannot bear to stay trapped inside any longer. It must come out and be expressed more fully. This shows up as negative feelings challenging you with your career, relationships, money, health, you name it – ALL SO YOU CAN EXPERIENCE MORE OF THE LOVE THAT IS WITHIN YOU!
To experience more of the love within you, you have to be awoken to when you are unconsciously responding from a place of fear. That is what your negative feelings are there for – to support you to recognize when you are responding from fear rather than love.
Your authentic essence is signaling to you through your negative feelings, saying: “Come on, you are ready to experience more of the love within you. I know it is scary to let go of this illusion of safety your fear brings. Trust me, how good you will feel in the long-term, when you feel more clear and certain about the unique expression of the love that resides within you.”
I know change and letting go of old patterns, beliefs and thoughts can be tough. It can be tough to switch from struggling with your negative emotions to actually recognizing the loving energy coming through them. Yet what choice do we really have? All we really have to choose from is love over fear as much as possible.
Sometimes I choose fear. Thanks to my negative feelings, I don’t stay there too long. My negative feelings remind me that in choosing fear, how uncomfortable and painful it is.
You remember this challenge you are experiencing isn’t really about you on a spiritual level. This challenge is about you being able to impact others with your unique expression of love – an expression that can only come from you. More importantly, your unique expression of love is NEEDED by others, whether that is your family, the company you work for, your community. The point is you don’t know who your love will touch, nor do you need to know. You are just being called to share more of it each and every time you experience a negative feeling.
You being your unique expression of love isn’t about being lovey-dovey per-say. All it is about is getting clearer about who you truly are, what you came here to do and you valuing this deepest truth so it more fully solidifies within you. When your knowingness of the love within you is unwavering, you feel free.
With love for you as you open yourself up to the amazing love within you-
PS: I really do want to hear how your transformation process is going this year. Share your comments below or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.