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Who Me Angry???

13 Mar 2013, by michelle in Uncategorized

“Michelle you are angry.” These are the words I heard a few years ago from a medium I had just met. I remember hearing those words and feeling like this session I just signed up for was all wrong.  “This lady is off her rocker!” I thought. She’s got me all wrong. I am happy. My life is good. What in the world would I have to be angry about? I am not at all angry.

Boy was I wrong!

She wasn’t talking about my external self, she was talking about my internal self. In particular, she was describing a part of myself that I have unknowingly and unconsciously stuffed down deep within me.

Here’s the tricky thing – you wouldn’t have noticed my anger on the outside OR the inside. What I mean is, internally, I wasn’t bubbling with anger. There wasn’t any hidden feeling that I was about to explode at any moment. If anything, I would get sad or frustrated that I felt powerless to change a part of my life but angry, not really. Not that I couldn’t express my anger. I could. It just wasn’t an emotion that rarely came up for me.

When the session was over and I had a little bit of time to process what she had said, it hit me like a ton of bricks – I was angry! I had just learned to skip over my anger. Instead, I went right to the sadness or frustration regarding feeling stuck in one particular area that for the life of me, I could not change.

As you know from what I teach about anger, the loving guidance coming from our anger is about owning more of our power. My “skipping over” my anger took away my ability to empower myself to get outside my norm and take the actions I needed to make my desire my reality.

Fast forward years later and now I am doing this work where I can see and feel where in my clients’ bodies emotions are stuck. Guess what I am finding in everyone? You guessed it – ANGER!

The vast majority of my clients were, at first, completely unaware that their anger existed. What I am finding is that anger is like it is a hidden epidemic for most, especially those who have been on a personal growth path for a long time. Yes, you heard me right, ESPECIALLY those of you who are on the path to spiritually grow and evolve.

What you need to be careful of when you are growing & evolving:

Being on this path of personal growth, you have learned how toxic anger is and you work hard not to have anything toxic in your life.   The last thing you want to be carrying around is toxic emotions. Having a more positive mindset, you are also pretty darn good getting along just fine with what you have.

The fact for many of my beloved personal growth friends is that you have become too good at focusing on what is working. Even though you have tools and techniques to release the “toxic” feelings, most aren’t listening to why these negative feelings are coming up in the first place. You can’t see how your negative feelings are supporting you to get you outside your comfort zone (aka your safety zone). You just want these feelings gone. Yet, in doing so, you are keeping yourself fenced in to a limited experience of life.  Yes, the fenced in area looks beautiful but there is so much more beauty waiting for you to experience outside the protective internal gates,  Getting to your full expression of self means reaching a point of internal discomfort with aspects of your life that are no longer serving you or are holding you back from your truth.  It is in your negative feelings from love that will bust through any protective walls or fences you have built so  you can feel greater freedom, joy, and fulfillment in life.

What I am seeing is that for those of you who, deep down, truly desire to create a change in your life, your essence, unbeknownst to you, is feeling angry, even rage, for two main reasons:

1. Its signals have been ignored too long, and
2. You have so much more of your gifts to share and serve the world, and unconsciously you are holding yourself back.

When you heed the amazing guidance that your anger has to offer, the life you want falls into place easier and faster. The reason is simple: you are no longer acting from fear regarding these feelings and instead acting on your inner wisdom’s guidance!

When you begin to see your anger from love is when you experience tears of gratitude for your anger teaching you that there is even more of your truth, your gifts, your light that are ready to be seen. When you experience gratitude in something that the majority judge as negative, you are able to recognize how loved you are at a profoundly deep level that changes you forever at your core.

  • If you are ready to discover that “something” that has been missing in your life….
  • If you have tools and techniques that have supported you to grow, but the same tools and techniques are not working for your next level of evolution…..
  • If you are ready to get the kink out of your internal hose, so you can truly unleash your best life…..

Then you are ready to partner together in my
UNRECOGNIZABLE YOU PARTNERSHIP PROGRAM

Let me be your sherpa! I know the hurdles, the pitfalls, and the self-doubts you will face and I will be right there with you. I have taken myself and now numerous others from all walks of life on this journey.

Please note: Because of the deep level of partnership I engage in throughout this journey (that is frankly unheard of at this level), I can only take a limited few.

Will you be one of them?

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Be Fearless, Recognize Unconscious Anger, & Experience the Loving Energy to Claim More of YOU!

With love and admiration for your courage,

 

 

2 COMMENTS
  • Orla Nelson

    Almost 29 years ago, a chemotherapy nurse observed that it was interesting that I wasn’t angry. Of course she knew that I was. I had just started my treatments for germ cell ovarian cancer and my mother had just passed away when she made the observation. How did a nice girl like me become angry?! After the treatments were completed I was also diagnosed with Major Depression and learned that the illness has a lot to do with unresolved anger turned inward. Since that time I have been more than intentional about resolving the anger and finding healthier ways to communicate and to love others. If we’d all resolve our own anger, we would have an amazingly peaceful planet. Even if we don’t admit it to ourselves, the body is honest and gets sick so thank you for addressing anger in your work.

    • Hi Orla,

      Thank you so very much for sharing your story! You’ve got it, how do these nice girls get so angry – because we haven’t known the loving guidance coming from our anger. I agree, if we all resolve our anger, the world would be so entirely different. There is an anger epidemic that is seeping out. I so honor you that during your deepest challenge in life, you were able to address yours in order that you can get your body back to health as well! With honor for you, Michelle