This fear and opportunity connection is huge for me right now. I am about to go through a divorce and it is so fearful to divide up time with the children, especially when my kids don’t feel emotionally safe with their dad and just all the unknowns. I believe what you say because of the progress I have made and the ability to look back and see the growth. “The test is first, the lesson is afterward” is a hard mantra to follow when you’re in the middle of the test!