Four Steps to Break Free from Self-Sabotage
You never know how you are going to be called to serve in a given day. On this particular day, I was called to serve by rescuing a trapped bird. During the recent storms we’ve been experiencing, the bird found shelter in a lamp post outside my home. At the time, it likely seemed genius for the bird to go through a broken glass plate in the lamp to score such a safe, dry, comfortable place to rest.
Fast-forward to the next day and the bird is wigging out because what, at one point, looked like safety was now her trap. As soon as I saw her, struggling and fighting to break her way free, I could relate to her instantly. So many times, I have found myself or one of my clients pushing and fighting to make things happen. We have set in our mind what we want, yet our actions only leave us exhausted and no where closer to where we want to be.
Now, all the bird needed to do was turn around to find the same hole was there for her to get out of this mess. The problem was the hole in the lamp post was directly facing my garage – the opposite direction of where she wanted to go. She was looking out at the other intact glass plates and saw trees and other birds happily flying along. She was likely thinking “Out there is where I want to be.” It would be easy to think “Just turn around little bird and you’ll see how easy it is to get your desired outcome.” But she doesn’t take a step back, she just keeps bumping into the glass plate in front of her. She sees where she wants to go, yet her efforts aren’t working.
Sound familiar? How many times do you find yourself in the same spot despite your efforts? That is your indicator that you too are operating from fear. When you are in a state of fear, whether you are conscious of it or not, you are taken away from what actually serves and supports your highest good. Just as the bird was afraid of being stuck, so often are we. Yet the direction our fears tell us to go is often the opposite direction of what will actually serve us. Just as the bird’s fear was telling her to keep pushing against a glass plate, we keep pushing against the tides of life.
To help my poor bird friend, I knew what I needed to do. I got in front of her face and looked her straight in the eyes. Although I was scary and obviously made her uncomfortable, I did this for a reason – to allow her to see the easiest way out of her situation. Only in that moment was she able to turn the other direction and finally see how to set herself free from her own trap. In an instant, she was gone and free to live as her heart guided her.
Guess what, your negative emotions are trying to do the same loving gesture as I did for the bird. Now just as the bird did not think me getting in front of her face was loving, we often don’t think of our negative feelings as loving. They are!
I know when you first experience a negative feelings, they make you feel uncomfortable and might even feel scary or overwhelming, just like my big eyes were to the bird. Yet, negative feelings are loving because when you consciously learn to listen to the higher vibrational message, they are there to guide you. Your negative feelings actually signal to you how you are going the wrong way AND give you the guidance you need to get back on track.
Unfortunately, you are often too busy trying to fight your negative feelings. You distance yourself from your negative feelings in order keep going in the direction that you think will get your needs met. Then you wonder why you aren’t getting your desired outcome met.
Here’s the human guide to break free from fear and/or self-imposed limitations:
Step One: Recognize that where you are is not where you want to be. It is so easy to keep ourselves busy – so darn easy in this society to stay busy, right? The truly courageous move is to slow yourself down and see if you are living in alignment with what you truly desire. Otherwise, you are acting like our bird friend – doing a lot of the same action over and over, yet not getting very far.
Step Two: Listen to your feelings. If you truly are committed to living your fullest life possible, you must be willing to face your fear. For us human folk that means listening to aspects of ourselves that aren’t happy. The good news is that you only have fear when you are ready to expand. Otherwise, you would feel fulfilled right where you are.
Step Three: Look your ego in the eye. When you listen to your feelings, the ego is the first to speak and its language is fear. What your ego is going to share with you is the illusion. Remember, to our bird friend, she only saw one way to freedom, yet it was completely incorrect. Write down the limitations that you hear come forward from your fear. How are they working for you? You need to know because that is where you are operating from. If you feel that what you have is better than nothing, that is a clear indication that fear is running and limiting your life.
Step Four: Risk letting go. Your ego will tell you a whole bunch of stories that you are letting go of your dream if you stop listening to your fear. That is the illusion! You access your ideal when you choose to let go. Back up, choose another option (there always is at least one, if not several, other choices to choose from). This is when you will witness real courage and strength within you.
The shifts that are occurring in your life are present to remind you of your truth.
This truth is: you are stronger and more courageous than you realize.
We are each being called to ACT upon this inner strength, as talk is no longer enough. The way we have learned to understand our emotions has set us all up to struggle. There is a new way. In the upcoming weeks, I am going to share with you more about how this new way will radically change how you feel and live, supporting you to act more fully from love, courage and strength.
My Abundant Little Life
It is so easy nowadays to get triggered with a sense of lack:
- You see people rocking it on Facebook.
- You see reality shows where people are living extraordinary lives.
- You see your own debt.
That is when it is easy to get overwhelmed or feel down.
There is another way!
Let me share with you a little story that just happened so you can see how easy it really is to receive!!
What about you? Are you ready to live (or already living) an abundant little life? Share with me how.
Is Your Worth Based on Love or Fear?
Yesterday was a challenging day. I felt myself in a state of fear as I reworked the chapter on fear in my upcoming book. Coincidence? I don’t think so!
The truth of the matter is I am eager to get my book done. In fact, I told my editor it would be done by early next week. My fear was making me push myself. I started questioning myself and became frustrated. The chapter wasn’t feeling right.
Thankfully, I know how to understand my frustration from the higher consciousness of love. In fact, my upcoming book Feel Every Emotion as Love teaches how each of your negative feelings presents themselves in order for you to get back on track from living from a state of love. Each negative feeling has a specific message to guide you back on course.
My frustration was there to notify me that what I am doing isn’t going to work for me. You see, in my quest to get my book finished, I have been lacking nurturing myself. That’s when I realized how I had fallen back into basing my worth on fear rather than love.
Oh how often I do this – because I am a doer. Doers are great and yet in order for our doing to be effective, it must be balanced with time to receive nurturance, love and care. For me that is often taking time to read in the middle of the day, go for a walk, color, or turn on Ellen (I love her!). I am only nurturing myself for 20-30 minutes and then I feel revitalized.
When I base my worth on fear, there is no time for nurturing myself. My worth, I believe in that moment, is about getting things done at nearly all costs. My frustration came in to remind me this is no longer my way. Sure I will still get triggered from time to time when deadlines loom. The truth of the matter is I wasted a ton of time yesterday pushing myself. Way more time than the 20-30 minutes I usually give to myself as a nurturance break.
Not today – Today has already been magical and will continue to be so. As I was rushing to get to yoga, another plan arose in me. I knew I needed to get outside. I went for a run and I swear to you the butterflies were dancing with me. The birds were singing, dragonflies twirling and bees humming along. What a gift!
I came home and laid on the lawn. Even though it was cool, I took off my sweatshirt and allowed the sun to soak into my bare arms and face. I felt thoroughly connected again to the love that surrounds me as well as the love that radiates from within me.
From this place of where I stand now, where I am thoroughly connected to love, I am once again reminded of the important choice we all have. We each have a choice, and it truly is your choice, to base your worth on love or fear.
I choose love. From love, is where we can all be our best and truly be of service to others. I am so grateful for the magic that occurs when we remember to love.
And now, I can’t wait to dive back into my book and share more deeply how our fear is here to serve us! So I am off to share more of my insight there.
Before I go, I would love to hear from you. Have you been basing your worth on fear rather than love lately? What ways do you nurture yourself? Please share because we aren’t on this journey alone and your messages impact others (whether your ego allows you to realize it or not)!
With great love and appreciation for you-
Michelle
Untame Your Heart
The untamed heart holds no fear. You are run by passion and intuition. You let go of control and have an innate trust in yourself.
Wow! Think about what life would be like if you lived it like that!
I am not saying you must always live with an untamed heart every single moment of your life (although you could).
* When was the last time you allowed your untamed heart to be expressed?
* When was the last time you expressed this part of you in your day to day life?
* Do others get to see, taste and feel the bold, wild you?
* Do they get to experience your unbridled power?
I am not just talking about romantic love either. This wild spirit of yours wants to be expressed in your work, with your friends and family – in all areas of your life. You have the spirit of a wild horse running within you and so often you are trying to keep it tame. Why?
The reason why we all unconsciously tame ourselves is because we’ve been programed by our fears. Fear we will not be loved, liked or accepted should we show this untamed side.
Here’s the cost:
- Lack of self-trust and confidence
- Lack of joy and laughter
- Lack of bold action that initiates much needed change in your life & in the world
- Lack of true intimacy
- Lack of passion and purpose
And so much more…
So, how about we change that?
Here’s how:
1 A. Imagine yourself sharing this bold or wild side.
B. What do you fear people will judge about you? What might you feel ashamed about?
C. Name how that part of you is important, needed and necessary. In other words, how does that part of you serve and support you when expressed from love?
2 A. Image yourself afraid to share your bold or wild side.
B. How do you judge or shame that part of you?
C. Name how that part of you is important, needed and necessary. In other words, how does that part of you serve and support you when expressed from love?
Every aspect of you is needed and necessary. You need both sides. Yet, too often we want to hide in our fears. At times, this can be okay because that allows others to take care of us. Of course, being taken care of can feel nice. Yet, when we stay in our fear too long, we won’t feel good because there is unexpressed potential waiting to be shared.
When you have an untamed heart, you are fearless. What the world needs from each of us is to become less fearless of ourselves. In other words, we become brazen – meaning, we don’t carry shame toward ourselves.
Without this shame, you are able to truly lead. This is what the world is begging for – more who are willing to lead during times when challenges seem impossible to surmount. Guess what? To do that, they’ll need the bold & empowered you to step forward. This is how you can give of yourself and serve fearlessly. So whadaya say?
There is nothing about you that needs to be shamed. We are all one, carrying the same fears, questions, doubts and insecurities. We do this until we find our truth – that we are each love. To find this truth, you must consciously chose love over fear.
Whenever you feel your love tank can use a little boost, or whenever you need a little self-confidence, choose to express your wild, bold & brazen self. Each time you do, you step further away from the safe persona you have built and more fully awaken to your joy, beauty and power in revealing all of you!
Happy Valentine’s Day Wild One!
With lots of love from me to you-
The Real Meaning to Giving More Deeply
I woke up this morning with this message “Give more deeply of yourself.” Immediately, my ego went into over-drive with my victim story. “What more can I give. I already have so much going on. What more do you want from me?” Thankfully, the loving guidance of my essence came swooping in to remind me that to give more deeply of yourself isn’t the same as doing more!
So the question was, “How could I give more deeply?” As I took a moment to reflect, I saw how tired I have been now that the holidays are over. When night comes, I feel wiped out. I reflected on how some of my silly bedtime rituals of tickle bugs and other important nonsense with the kids have been cut way back.
What I was reminded of was presence. Maybe you are like me, where you find you have moments of presence and then it slips away. Suddenly you find yourself thinking about what else is on your list of things to do. Rather than stay in the moment, you find your mind going off into some other place.
Others of you may rarely find presence if you are like I was, an ultimate multi-tasker. As a parent, I found it challenging not to try to do twenty things at once. There is so much going on at once that you become good at juggling or sink. Many of you may feel like that is also the reality of your job as well. This is where you get addicted to living at a pace that keeps you away from your presence. Then you find yourself in those rare spare moments that you have, checking your email rather than just being present.
This is why it is important for all of us to ask in each moment “Am I giving deeply of myself?” In other words, are you fully in the moment? Are you playing full out in the everyday components of life?
Don’t forget about yourself either. Are you giving deeply to yourself as well? Are you listening to your needs? Are you listening to your feelings and how they are loving guiding you? This is where many fall short. You simply aren’t willing to give yourself this loving attention because your ego had you believe there is too much other components to your life that need your attention. What you are really saying to yourself is that your needs are not that important.
Now ask yourself this, if your needs aren’t that important, can you really be present? You can’t. If you can’t be present, you really can’t truly give of yourself as you desire. Your needs are going to find some way to be addressed, unconsciously or consciously. If your needs must find an unconscious way to be met, you will find your efforts being sabotaged.
This is part of the transformation that is occurring this year, to let go of old habits that keep us away from living more fully connected to ourselves. You give more deeply when you are fully present with yourself first. Being present with yourself is what allows you to be fully present with others. This is how we truly and deeply connect. It is through present connection that you tend to find the fun just by truly being where you are.
You have so many gifts and so much love to give! Allow your emotions to guide you back to your truth. Your truth has huge plans for you! What you are hearing allows you more fully understand your essence, which in turn, supports you to truly share of yourself. You can be more open, more exposed, and more vulnerable. In doing so, you will find yourself more deeply able to give in ways that bring you the joy and fulfillment your heart craves!
Here’s to you giving of yourself more deeply! Please share the ways that arise within you to share of yourself in this loving and generous way below. By giving of yourself through sharing, your heart may inspire another to give more deeply in the same way!
With love and appreciation for your giving heart -
Celebrating the Light!
I had the pure pleasure, on Sunday, watching my kids participate in a Christmas play. It was so fun seeing them dressed up and sharing their lines with joy and pride! What was fun about the play was that it had a casual tone, where the story of Christmas was broken down at a level so that even little kids could understand.
Interestingly, what stood out the most in this play was a story of faith. The type of faith that is required when the guidance you are being given doesn’t make sense to your rational mind. Then continually finding trust day by day when you don’t know for certain what your future entails.
This process of trust and faith reminds me of what is required of us when we live emotionally conscious. Your feelings are filled with intuitive wisdom. Your feelings will give you guidance that may not be the most comfortable step to take. Often times, the guidance you receive will not make sense to your rational mind.
Living emotionally conscious requires great faith. At times you probably felt like you were stumbling along in your own darkness. The point is you kept making steps in the darkness, even though you weren’t exactly sure where it would lead you. Where this is all leading you, my friend, is back to more of you:
- Your Gifts
- Your Truth
- Your Inner Treasure
Leading you out of this darkness is your light. Your light is the part of you that wants you to see the gifts to every single part of you. The light within you is what allows you to recognize how aspects of yourself that your ego rejects are the exact aspects you need to serve the world. These aspects will simply react differently when they are treated from a place of love rather than fear.
As we now enter into the darkest day of the year, in the Northern Hemisphere, we celebrate the light moving forward. That is why the Winter Solstice is such an honored time of year because we are welcoming in the light, both the light of the sun and the light within you. The light within you will continue to encourage you to see all aspects of you through love rather than fear.
So whether you light the menorah, wrap up your Christmas tree in lights, or want to honor the sun for bringing forward longer daylight hours, what is clear is that this is a time to celebrate light. This time of year is a celebration of finding the light in the darkness. The light is always present to guide you, regardless of how dark it may seem. Light, like love, always exists.
This holiday, celebrate the light within you and the light within others. Trust in your light and it will shine even more brightly. In return, you will be sharing your light with others without even knowing you are doing so. Naturally you light comes pouring forth simply because you had the courage to have trust and faith.
This holiday season, may you remember:
*You too are a miracle.
*You too are a beacon of light.
*You too are meant to use your love and light to serve the world.
*You too are an instrument of peace and love.
May your light shine brightly in trust, faith and love this holiday season!
Dance to Your Heart’s Song
I know turning 40 usually means checking out wrinkles and freaking out about aging. I see the fine lines (some deeper than others truth be told) but they just seem so boring compared to the song that is in my heart that wants me to jump in and DANCE with reckless abandon! There is a song that is playing in all of our hearts. Some of you may be just hearing it for the first time, while others of you know it so well, yet you’ve been hesitant to go all in or maybe you haven’t felt adequately prepared to learn a new, more intricate dance move that is an integral part of your song’s full expression.
There is a way, however, to figure out what is being called for you to do next that is coming from your song. All you need to do is being willing to see the one area of your life that your heart has longed to create change toward and hasn’t been able to make it happen. This is your next step, the next move for you to master. You do this by following these steps on how to more fully dance to your heart’s song:
- List out the reasons and ways you have tried to make that change happen that didn’t work.
- Honestly reflect how those attempts have made you feel. Oftentimes we get into a story that turns us into the victim or poor me. If you see this, this is great for two reasons: a) because you are not denying it & b) because that is where you have room to claim more of your power.
- In what way would it feel good for you to take more responsibility toward creating the change that you desire?
- What is your song leading you to do next?
- How does it make you feel when you listen to your song’s lead?
- In what way do you try to tear apart and void out messages in #3, 4 or 5?
- What is getting you closer to your goal, following #2 & #6 or sticking with #3, #4 & #5?
- Claim and affirm your choice. Set up reminders that support your new decision and new level of responsibility toward your life!
Here is how this has played out in my life recently. I have longed to create greater financial stability and savings in my life. Even though I tried to live consciously regarding how I spent money, I didn’t feel like I was getting where I wanted to when it came toward saving for our retirement and college or being able to comfortably afford international travel with my family. My past failed attempts made me feel like saving and investing weren’t my forte and so I put them on my husband to worry about, after all, he did that naturally =)! “Plus,” I told myself “I trust I will always be taken care of by God/Universe.” Yet, deep down, a part of me knew I wasn’t doing my part.
When I asked myself how I can begin taking more responsibility, I came to realize the power I had to set an even stronger tone in my family toward living in greater alignment with our core desires and values. When I listened more fully to my song, what I heard was an even stronger desire to serve and lead at a new level. This made me feel energized, alive and excited about my path. My song gave me even greater clarity. Right then, I knew the old reasons that told us we were already doing enough were really just excuses. My husband and I set new boundaries around our spending AND that we would affirm our songs by asking each other two questions each night: Did you serve today? Did you lead today?
I can’t tell you how inspiring it feels to take action toward living in even greater alignment to our hearts’ songs. We celebrated by going down to Lake Michigan with a bottle of wine, chips and salsa, talking for hours. It was a super inexpensive date indeed, but one of our best ever!
No matter what age you are, you too can listen in more closely to your heart’s song. Listen to what it is reminding you about yourself and how you can live your life. Then DANCE full-out along with it!
Dancing together in love, leadership and service,
PS: Ever read Oriah Mountain Dreamer’s “The Dance”? I have it in my office and encourage you to check it out for additional inspiration to DANCE to your heart’s song!
Move out of Control and into Flow
Oh my goodness, so many of us love to control, plan out, and analyze– all of which are great qualities to have. Yet, let’s face it, too much “thinking things through” can also lead to stagnation and even boredom. Rather than letting our logical, rational brain have full control of our lives, we need balance.
To achieve a more balanced state, we need to consciously choose to shift gears from always pushing or forging ahead to opening ourselves up to a state of allowing, which is often called “flow.” From a flow state, there is room for spontaneity, intuition and creativity to come forward.
If this sounds too touchy-feely, or all fun and games, it isn’t. Although a flow state is known to occur for more artistic types, athletes, sales people, even doctors have shared how they enter a “flow zone.” In this zone, you feel “on,” where you trust what is coming forward from inside of you and lose yourself in the process. The result is you are more effective at what you do.
My guess is you are wondering “How on earth do I make that happen?” Well, here’s the deal – you can’t make flow happen. Flow is an authentic state that cannot be forced. There are, however, ways you can encourage more flow states in your life.
Here’s my top 3 Ways to Shift from Control to Flow:
#1 Listen to Your Feelings
I can’t say this enough – those who are in the know when it comes to personal growth recognize emotions as a HUGE, POWERFUL ALLY! Too often times, you ignore or set aside feelings because, well, you don’t like what they are saying. Let’s face it, feelings, especially those that challenge you, can occur at inconvenient times. A much easier approach is to ignore, deny or try to rise above what you feel. In doing so, however, you are not aligning yourself with your authentic self. Instead, you are subconsciously judging and unconsciously choosing fear. Your fear is in what these feelings mean to you, or what they bring up within you that you don’t like.
There is another choice, which is to listen to your feelings from a higher consciousness perspective. From a higher consciousness perspective, challenging feelings are viewed as a signal with an underlying message that is present to support you. In this way, you can stay true to how you feel without getting lost in fear or ego drama. What this is doing is actually moving your internal energy from a place that doesn’t serve and stifles you to one in which your internal energy flows in congruence with your higher self.
From a higher consciousness understanding, your feelings are present to get you back in alignment with your authentic self. Challenging feelings indicate you are buying into fear more than your truth. They also give you the direction you need to move back in alignment with your authentic self. By learning to follow the higher consciousness message, you create internal balance. From this place of internal balance, there is room for passion, new insight and energy to come through – all of which are present to support you to live from a flow state more and more often.
#2 Prioritize Your Essence
Listen to your essence – that authentic, wise, love-filled part of you. What does that aspect of you desire? This part of you often gets ignored (sometimes for years!). Let’s face it, you have responsibilities that are always seeking and winning your attention. I am not talking about being irresponsible here. You still have things that need to get done yet, who says joy, play and your essence can’t come first?
#3 Practice Allowing
What do you like to control or plan? What would it be like for you to let go of the grip a bit? Rather than go, go, go how about rest, observe, listen and witness? Make room for spontaneity and see what life can bring you.
Just compare the two pictures and decide which feels more fulfilling, abundant and power-filled. Allow your essence to be your guide that you trust over your ego’s need to control and in turn experience more of you and the life your heart desires to create!
Thank you so much for connecting with me here. I am happy to be on this journey with you!
Living Emotionally Conscious Together -
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Surrender to the Green Beans
One of my early spiritual teachers shared with me a story about her process of training to become a shaman. She had traveled all over the world, learning from amazing spiritual masters. Part of her last leg of preparation was working in a spiritual community, where each member of the community performed a certain task that would benefit the whole. This task was assigned based on the inherent gifts each member had, as well as what would task was believed to most benefit each member’s spiritual growth and evolution. With all her travels and through everything she had learned, she had secretly hoped she would have an “important” function.
What did her role turn out to be? Her very important and oh so exclusive role was preparing shuck beans! Umm, not exactly what she imagined.
Still she took on the task, thinking quickly it would be changed. But after a few weeks of doing this, she grew incredibly bored and decided to mention something to the person who assigned tasks. He assured her that preparing the beans the best place for her and where she was meant to be.
She would then go back to doing her work but she wasn’t enjoying it in the least. She decided each week, she’d check in to see if she could be assigned a different task, something that would expand her gifts. And each week, she was told again and again, green beans are where you are meant to be.
After months went by with the same rejection week after week, she reflected on how her strategy of trying to assert herself into a different position was not working. She decided to dedicate herself whole-heartedly to preparing the green beans and let go of what she thought she ought to be doing instead. She found herself becoming lost in the process she had learned so well. At first it felt like a form of meditation and then it blossomed even further to have its own melody. Soon she found herself signing as she performed her tasks. Others noticed how happy and at peace she was. It was then that she was told she had completed her task well and it was time for her to share all she has learned out into the world.
Although her heart had known for a long time she was going to be a spiritual teacher, she had not received all the lessons that would make her teachings fulfilling to her. Her ego was trying to push and force the change that her heart so deeply wanted to create. Yet, the heart’s language is not push, it is flow. It is an internal melody that is found when you surrender to your current reality.
So many times when we reach this point when life isn’t working out as planned, we turn our backs on the tasks before us. We want to say, “To hell with it!” Or maybe you fall back into an old pattern of behavior that isn’t working, yet feels comfortable to you.
Do not confuse surrender with giving up. The tasks are there for a reason – to prepare you to share your gifts. This doesn’t mean life is going to stay this way, as your ego would like you to believe. If your ego, is like mine, it wants to get on with it and keep moving forward. However, if you find yourself stuck, yet again, that is a sure sign there is something you are missing that will support you to move forward. That is when you are being called to find acceptance in what this moment is trying to teach you. Ask yourself “What do I need to learn about why my relationships, career, finances, physical health or whatever your current challenge is in this present moment?”
You will find your spirit/essence/authentic self is guiding you, once the pushy, assertiveness of your ego is witnessed. Then it is your choice as to which voice you are going to follow. When you whole-heartedly choose your essence, your ego’s job has been completed with this task and let’s go of the deep grip it had on you. That is when you realize that your essence will always be the more difficult voice to trust, yet it is the only path to reap the rewards of your heart’s desires. Til this day, I have kept a jar of baby food green beans on my meditation table to remind me to surrender to my own life’s unfolding by choosing my essence rather than my ego to be my guide.
Living Emotionally Conscious Together,
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The Tree by Carlene Roberts
It started as a seed,
And at first was mistaken for a weed.
It felt so very small,
But always stood up tall.
When left alone to grow,
Its life energy began to flow.
The earth offered nurturance and love,
And the sun offered light and warmth from above.
The rain gave it nourishment,
As the wind offered encouragement.
All these combined to create a life force,
And then the circle of life simply took its course.
And then one day its strength and life burst forth with such might,
Its splendor and beauty beheld such a sight.
Then it merged with the earth and they became one,
It reflected the light and warmth back to the sun.
Its leaves gave the rain and wind a voice,
Together they had all made a choice.
They had joined together and turned the seed into a beautiful tree,
And it was indeed a breathtaking sight to see.
For as they all joined together as one,
They had created a harmony that could not be undone by anyone.
So if ever you feel weak and small,
Or feel like you’re about to fall,
Look around you and you will see
The strength and beauty of this tree.
Believe in yourself and don’t give up,
And realize that you’ve just hit a bump.
Stop and just simply be,
Find your life energy and set it free.
Then stand up to what you fear,
And pull your loved ones near.
There is more to this life than just you and me,
There is more than what you simply see.
Open yourself up and feel the power,
That exists even in the smallest flower.
And you will find the strength to stand up tall,
And no longer be afraid you’ll fall.
For within us all lies beauty, strength and light,
That you don’t find just with your sight.
Open yourself up and join as one,
And let your guide be the sun.
Don’t think about tomorrow,
Be true to yourself and it will follow.
Think of the seed that turned into a beautiful tree,
And let your spirit soar free.
And you will feel yourself straighten and stand up tall,
And never again will you feel small.
Remember it all started with a seed,
That once was mistaken for a weed.
If you would like to send your feedback to Carlene, you can email her directly at 4roberts@comcast.net





Before I uncovered the truth to our emotions, I would become paralyzed by my feelings and fears, even though I had been professionally trained as a psychotherapist and life coach!
