Want to Feel More Excitement about Your Life?
Don’t you love the feeling of excitement running through your body. You are optimistic, ready to move forward and utilize that energy within you to make things happen. This is actually the purpose of excitement – to propel you forward!
Believe it or not, your fear is the same energy as excitement. The only difference is that your ego has taken a hold of the energy and turned it into what you recognize as fear. You know the ego is involved with fear because you’ll feel weighed down, uncertain, scared, anxious or sad.
From an emotional consciousness standpoint, you recognize the true purpose to your fears. They are present to alert you that you are buying into an ego message. Congratulations – just recognizing this is a huge step forward!
Now, to transmute the fear into the energy of excitement, all you need to do is understand the underlying message of the ego.
When this happens to me, I turn to my feelings to help me uncover the truth. Nothing is better than recognizing sadness as loving guidance for you to get the clarity you need. What I love about feeling every emotion as love is that the process allows you to get very specific as to what is your vulnerable spot that the ego is trying to protect.
Your sadness supports you to gain clarity and see the truth to the matter rather than the false story of your ego. Fear is then transformed back to excitement because the energy that you have given to your ego is now reverted back to your essence. When your essence is free to do what it came here to do, you will be blown away at your ability to move mountains! That is the energy that awaits you!!
What this means for you is to begin to see each and every fear as opportunity. The opportunity is to understand where, why and how your energy is leaking toward your ego. The time has come to reclaim that energy back to serving you and utilizing your excitement to even more deeply claim what fulfills you.
The good news is that fear is a normal part to growth. I feel it all the time and I utilize my fear to support me to reach my desires. You can too!
Begin by reminding and stating to yourself of the following:
“Each time I feel fear, it is an opportunity for me to expand and own more of my personal power and truth.”
You and only you can make the decision if you are going to use fear to transform you or keep you stuck. Your fate is in your hands! Now that is something to feel excited about – you have the choice to claim all of your potential!
Live Emotionally Conscious – Live Exceptionally Well,
Michelle
My Response to a Dysfunctional Self-Actualizing Philosopher
Subject: dysfunctional self-actualizing philosopher
To: Michelle Bersell <support@michellebersell.com>
Michelle…Ok..today I own my ’state’. I am paralyzed by my lack of confidence. I drown it in other lack – not enough knowledge, not likeable, not this not that. I drop into this pool of cement and struggle with the struggle. I know what I am doing and have winds of lightness and grace but I can’t seem to undo something that keeps me from allowing my life to shine.
I was shocked to hear a friend say to me years ago – You have a lot of self-hatred. I am thankful for this comment as I awakened to myself. I played with the programming, with energy and with knowledge. I have dramatically changed my lifepath.
It’s a new world but I am not knowing how to live in it. I yell out – ok, teach me the lesson and lessen the teaching so I can move on. Something in my programming or willingness is making me a dysfunctional self-actualizing philosopher of sorts. Debt and pounds are adding up and I am inert. Kids are feeling insecure about Mom. I am missing a link.
What do you suggest?
Jane

Hi Jane,
First of all I want to acknowledge that it takes courage to say, “Look, I have been on this personal development path for quite some time and I am still struggling.” Trust me, you are not alone. It is not your fault because the emotion piece that understands the ego, your fears and feelings from a spiritual perspective has been missing.
I know exactly where you are – been there, done that! To be frank, the missing link is you getting so tired and so damn bored of your ego’s story that you become willing to fight for your essence. I mean aren’t the stories of your ego boring to you? For how long have you been hearing the message you aren’t enough this or you are not enough that? For a very, very long time right? And where has it gotten you? How have those messages served you?
Now is the time to get ANGRY that you have bought into those messages for so long. You have to be willing to say “ENOUGH, NO LONGER WILL I BUY INTO MESSAGES THAT DO NOT SERVE ME” and then take action.
ACTION IS KEY! Anger is your power and will support you to finally claim energy on behalf of your essence to take action. Have you been using your anger from a consciousness level to tap into your internal power? What we have to be careful about being on this path is thinking, reading and taking too many courses on your personal development. Why? Because then you remain a philosopher rather than experiencing what it is you are learning about.
You have to be willing to take one step each and every day to the benefit of your essence. Even if it doesn’t make sense to your rational brain, listen to your essence. Your spirit is BEGGING YOU to TAKE A RISK. Take an honest look at what you have to lose. Your spirit is being cut off from life by how you are living. It doesn’t get worse than that!
If you continue to take risks on behalf of your essence, you guarantee a breakthrough. If you continue to listen to the voices of your ego, you guarantee yourself to remain spinning your wheels and more pain. I will say this to you lovingly because I have been exactly where you are at emotionally; There comes a time when we have to stop whining and take responsibility for our lives. Your anger from a consciousness level will help you see this. Now is your time.
Live Emotionally Conscious – Live Exceptionally Well,
Michelle
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Before I uncovered the truth to our emotions, I would become paralyzed by my feelings and fears, even though I had been professionally trained as a psychotherapist and life coach!
